I have a love-hate relationship with higher education. I think from Elementary school up most of us were taught that higher education is the way to go, that we won’t amount to all that we can be unless we go to college, that we’ll end up working at a fast food joint forever, and so on and so forth. In some families, parents would almost have a heart attachk or react like you said a swear word if you told them that you were unsure about going to college, or that you didn’t want to go at all. As a culture, it is engrained in us that we “have to” or “should” pursue higher education after high school, but WHY? If you were to ask yourself this, in your answer would you be stating your own opinion (truly) or just quoting one or some of the many things that you had been told growing up? “You should go so that you can get a better job” or “You should go so that you can support your family” or “You should go so that you can have a better life than me” or for reason XYZ.
What bothers me is that they left out the part about how higher education still is truly only for those who can afford it. They don’t really talk too much about paying for the next 10 – 20 years or what the difference between a federal and private loan is, or what a good interest rate is. All we’re told is, “You should go to college.” But nothing about how to pay for it and what it really means to be able to afford it. For those of you who were able to get grants and scholarships, or have someone pay for the whole ride for you, I give you kudos. And also for those of you who only had to pay for a small part of your tuition or were able to keep it under $10,000 (or even $20,000), again, I give you a standing ovation.
But, then there’s the rest of us. There are the rest of us that didn’t fit into a category that qualified us for a grant or scholarship, or we got money that covered only a fraction of our tuition, or we only qualified for a certain amount of federal loans because of our parent’s income, even though our parents could barely get by. [So you’re telling me that even though my parents are struggling as it is, their income is too high for me to get more money for college? I wonder, would my parents rather pay their mortgage and have somewhere for all of us to live or would they rather pay my tuition for one class, which was actually more than their monthly mortgage payment? Hmmmm decisions decisions.]
Personally, I had to turn to private loans if I wanted to stay in school when I was in college, which, at the ripe young age of 19 – 20, I had NO idea what I was signing up for. Overall, I didn’t understand all the legal jargon and terms in the contracts since my financial counselor didn’t really describe what I was signing very well. Basically I was told that if I wanted to stay in school I needed to sign these papers so that I could pay for the next quarter, and so on and so forth. But I didn’t really understand what was all involved, all I knew is that I needed to stay in school. I won’t bore you with all the details, but my main motivation for staying in school was so that I could do exactly what I was told according to the brainwashing I had received my entire life: to get a better paying job so that I could live comfortably.
What they left out is that not only are you going to pay those loans back only 6 months after you’re done with school (employed or not), but that it is going to take a nice chunk out of your monthly income, you know, the income that’s supposed to be so high so that you can live “comfortably”. Even though your monthly income is about $2,500 after taxes (if you’re blessed enough to get a job like that or better just after graduating) they will be expecting about $400 of that please, and thank you. $400 is not too bad I guess if you have no real life expenses (or at least have very few), but not everyone can make that boast. I’m not going to lie, higher education did get me the job that I have now with a company that has been around for 125+ years and without my degree I wouldn’t have gotten the job and I’m thankful, but what good is a high paying job when you literally make just enough to be broke, with student loans payments being almost as much as your rent? Plus that is not counting the expenses of running a household and other living expenses.
Ultimately, I feel that student loans are a necessary evil if you have no other options. Once you have them you can’t live with ’em, but realistically, we most definitely could live without them – we would just have to ask ourselves if we are willing to then resort to plan C instead of plan B (where plan A is to just start working after high school, and plan B is going to college). Most of us nowadays don’t have a plan C unfortunately, and most of us are engrained to think that plan A isn’t good enough. I say, make your own choice and find your own path. No one will be able to write your life’s story better than you. Now I should probably get back to work so that I can earn my next payment for Sallie Mae.